How do you let go of being upset, when you truly feel you are owed an apology? I have just let go of these things too many times. I am so tired of it and frustrated. It makes me so incredibly sad.
Wow...that is the million dollar question isn't it. I am in a similar situation right now, and I don't have an answer. I will pray for you though! Have a good one! How are things going with Erik? Take care!!
That is a tough situation, you can either lovingly confront the person, or just let it go with lots of prayer!
Easier said than done! Hope you can work it out one way or the other though!
Blessings, K
It's hard to know. If they refuse to apologize, it's better for you to let go so you don't hurt yourself, KWIM?
I take the direct approach "You owe me an apology." After you do that, then you just have to let it go, or it will eat you up inside.
I don't know if yours is a lil thing or big theng, but it seems like the smaller it is, the worst it eats ya up inside.
Either way, I am sorry that someone hurt ya.
T~
Funny, I was just thinking last night about how I just "let so much go" and how nobody really gets just how much!
Hugs, Jen! It's hard. I have to forgive someone whether they apologize or not. Then I let it go. I have, however, been known to take a more direct approach at times and tell people within the family that they may not have realized it, but they'd said something that was rude or hurtful, and they should apologize.
Assuming you haven't confronted them and asked for an apology, I would suggest you pray to God that He helps you forgive. Say, "Bless them Lord," and then say nothing more out of your mouth. TIME takes the sting out of these "owey" situations.
I had something similar to deal with about 4 weeks ago, so I've had recent experience with being WAY-wronged.
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Wow...that is the million dollar question isn't it. I am in a similar situation right now, and I don't have an answer. I will pray for you though! Have a good one! How are things going with Erik? Take care!!
That is a tough situation, you can either lovingly confront the person, or just let it go with lots of prayer!
Easier said than done! Hope you can work it out one way or the other though!
Blessings,
K
It's hard to know. If they refuse to apologize, it's better for you to let go so you don't hurt yourself, KWIM?
I take the direct approach "You owe me an apology." After you do that, then you just have to let it go, or it will eat you up inside.
I don't know if yours is a lil thing or big theng, but it seems like the smaller it is, the worst it eats ya up inside.
Either way, I am sorry that someone hurt ya.
T~
Funny, I was just thinking last night about how I just "let so much go" and how nobody really gets just how much!
Hugs, Jen! It's hard. I have to forgive someone whether they apologize or not. Then I let it go. I have, however, been known to take a more direct approach at times and tell people within the family that they may not have realized it, but they'd said something that was rude or hurtful, and they should apologize.
Assuming you haven't confronted them and asked for an apology, I would suggest you pray to God that He helps you forgive. Say, "Bless them Lord," and then say nothing more out of your mouth. TIME takes the sting out of these "owey" situations.
I had something similar to deal with about 4 weeks ago, so I've had recent experience with being WAY-wronged.
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