Month: August 2010

  • Back to School Series: Bedtime Routine

     

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    Maybe it is the smell of crayons or the hustling to buy school supplies, but my thoughts are turning to “Back to School”.  I need to get back on track after a summer of less structure in our home.I have slacked off on some of my routines this summer.  I have to get in shape for the balancing act of juggling, working fulltime, volunteering and having kids in school.  Therefore, it is “Back to School” boot camp time for this mom!  The success of the morning at our house really is up to me.  I set the tone and attitude for the morning with my children.  Towards the end of last year, the success of our mornings really deteriorated.  I end up feeling so bad if I happen to become inpatient with Tommy in the morning, which happened more often then I liked.I want to start the school year off on the right foot.

    I know I need to get back to following my bedtime and morning routines again.I also need to get Tommy back on a school schedule.Hubby and I have agreed on a bedtime for Tommy and will start implementing this on the 23rd.  That will give him 2 weeks back on schedule before school starts.

    That means I have one week to get back on track with my bedtime routine, before I focus on the morning routine for Tommy and I.

    So I want to chat a bit about our bedtime routines.  Do you have one???   I struggle to do mine each night as I rather do a million other things, but life goes much better if “ I just do it!”   Story of my life, quit complaining and just do it!

     Jen's Bed Time Routine:
    1.  Wash Dishes/Clean Counters (usually some member of my family does this)
    2.  Sweep Kitchen
    3.  Make Lunches/ Prep for Dinner
    4.  Switch Laundry/ Lay out Clothes
    5.  Take Dogs Out – 9:00
    6.  Go To Bed – 10:00

    Do I do each of these items each night??  Nope, life happens, but I try to.  But just doing these few things each night, keeps the house presentable enough for us. 

    I like to start my bedtime routine at 8:00 or 8;30, once Tommy has started his bedtime routine with Daddy. The bedtime routine really helps to make my mornings run more smoothly.  If my morning goes more smoothly, then I am a better mommy and wife in the morning.  I remind myself of this each time I procrastinate and tell myself, "just do it!".  I want to be the best Mommy and Wife I can be.

    What is your bedtime routine?  If you don't have one, tell us three things that you would like to do each evening to make your morning go more smoothly!   Now write them down and start implementing your plan!

    I look forward to hearing from you next week about how you have done with your bedtime routine.  We can do this!!

    Happy Organizing!

  • Menu Plan Monday: August 16th

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    August 16th - 22nd

    Favorite meals from last week include, Mexican Hamburgers, Apricot Pork Ribs and Honey Nut Chicken.   I made all the meals planned, except for the One Dish Nacho Bake as I wasn't home that evening and I forgot to prepare the meal the night before.  Overall, I am doing pretty good with sticking to the menu and my budget.

    I am working on getting back into the school routine.  My meals are planned and the house cleaning and laundry are getting done each week.  I am still not doing very well with my bedtime routine at all.  That is my goal for this week, to complete my bedtime routine each night. 

    In our state, school starts the day after Labor Day so I have a bit of time yet to get back into routine.    

    Monday - Tuna Casserole/Sweet Peas/Pear Slices  (e-mealz -337)

    Tuesday - Chicken Tender Salad/Apricot English Muffins  (e-mealz -336)

    Wednesday - Italian-Dijon Tilapia/Asparagus/Cantaloupe (e-mealz -336)

    Thursday - Ham & Broccoli Pastry/Carrots w/ Ranch/Cottage Cheese & Strawberries (e-mealz -336)

    Friday - BLT Sandwiches/Strawberry Parfaits (e-mealz -336)

    Saturday - Bayou Stroganoff/Apple Sauce (e-mealz -336)

    Sunday - Teriyaki Chicken Kabobs/Corn on the Cob (e-mealz -336)

    Recipes from other participants that I want to try:

    Almond Crust Tilapia @ Food On the Table
    Cedar Plank Grilled Salmon with Garlic, Lemon and Dill @ Food on the Table
    Dale Burgers @ Food on the Table
    Skillet Tacos @ Lynn's Kitchen Adventures

    Hope you all had a wonderful weekend!!  Just remember that a bit of planning will sure make your week go smoother, giving you more free time and saving you money!  For more Menu Planning inspiration stop by and visit Laura at Organizing Junkie and participate in Menu Plan Monday.  Weekly over 400 bloggers share what they have on their menu. 

    I am holding a Back to School organizing giveaway, so enter to win a package of wonderful "Back to School" organizing items!

    Happy Eating!!!

  • Recipe: Apricot Pork Ribs & Baked Beans

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    Tried a new grilling recipe again this week.  It was a hit with the entire family.  We kept some of the sauce to use as a dripping sauce.  

    Apricot Pork Ribs

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    2.5lb Country Style Pork Ribs
    Salt
    Pepper
    1 C Onion, Sliced
    3/4 C Apricot preserves
    3 T brown sugar,
    3 cloves of garlic, chopped

    Salt and pepper ribs.  Place in 9x13 oven safe pan.  Top with onions.  Combine preserves, brown sugar and garlic.  Pour over onions.  Cover and bake at 325 for 1 hour.  Then finish up on the grill 20-30 on indirect heat, basting with drippings. 

    Baked Beans

    2 cans of baked beans
    1/2 C Maple Syrup
    1/2 C Brown Sugar
    1/2 C BBQ Sauce
    1 onion, diced
    oil

    In a saucepan, saute onion in a bit of oil.  Add beans, syrup, brown sugar, and BBQ sauce.  Bring to a poil then simmer for 30 minutes. 

    Happy Grilling!!

  • Library Loot: August 14, 2010

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    August 14, 2010

    Library Loot Event is a weekly event hosted by Eva at A Striped Armchair and Claire from The Captive Reader.  This weekly event encourages bloggers to share the books they have checked out from the library. I always find many new books to add to my reserve list!

    I recently purchased a Kindle, but am still going to the library weekly to supplement my reading material. 

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    The following book found their way home with me from our local Library:

    Florist's images The Florist’s Daughter – Patricia Hampl
    polygamist The Lonely Polygamist – Brady Udall
    images The Piano Teacher – Janice Y. K. Lee
    annie Annie’s Ghost – Steve Luxenberg
      

    Finished and Returned to the Library this week:

    Look_again Look Again – Lisa Scottoline
    12rooms Twelve Rooms with a View – Theresa Rebeck (read the first 100 pages and just wasn’t into the story – did not finish)

    Happy Reading!!

    Jen C

  • In The MailBag: Budget Chat

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    I know I have been missing from blogging lately, so I thought a good way to get back to blogging is to answer some reader mail!   So you know me, I am mostly an open book, so ask away and maybe your question will be answered!   I am trying to do better at answering questions, really....I am .

    I read the questions below and thought....man what a great blog this would make!   LOL!!

    Do you have a budget for everything? Do you focus on only a few? My husband and I with the best intentions have a hard time managing different budgets from one account. do you have any ideas on what works for you?

    I would say we have a loose budget for most things.  I have a debt reduction plan.  I use a Rapid Debt Reduction Calculator on a site called Debt Proof Living.  I took all my current loans and credit card debt at the their minimum payment plus an additional $100 a month and that is what I put towards debt each month.  This is not a free site.  My oldest son made an impressive debt repayment plan from a free site.   It uses the same principle of snowballing your debt repayment and sets up a debt repayment plan for you. 

    In our house one of us is paid each week, so I actually work on a weekly budget.   I have a bill paying sheet similar to the one below for each pay period in the month that details what needs to be paid each pay period.  This works for us....we seem to live week to week or paycheck to paycheck.

     

    Due Date

    Amount

    Pymnt

    Date

    Payment

    3/26/10- 4/06/10

     

     

     

     

    Weekly Budget

     

    150

     

     

    Paul’s Money

     

    100

     

     

    House Payment

     

    233

     

     

    School Tuition

     

    97.50

     

     

    Tuition Bucks Order

     

     

     

     

    Mortgage

    1st

    938.71

    3/28

    8807

    Xcel Energy

    1st

    177.29

    3/28

    8808

    Chase – Online

    6th (2/2010)

    400.00

    3/28

    Online

    Bp/Chase – Online

    6th (2/2010)

    212.00

    3/28

    8810

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Each week I set aside $100 in cash in our grocery envelope.  I also purchase $25 Walmart Gift Card each week for any household items that need to be purchased at Sam's or Walmart.  I save them up from week to week until I go to the store.  That is how I budget for groceries and household things.  We also budget our gas purchasing this way.  We buy the same amount of SA gift cards each week.  We purchase all our gift cards through a program through our son's school so we get a portion back towards his tuition.  This year we were able to cover just over one month of tuition with the earnings from our purchasing gift cards through the program.  I will always take free money!!

    I also set aside out of each paycheck 1/4 of the cost of our house payment so we can spread the larger expenses out over the entire month.   I do the same with School Tuition and Child Support for my stepson.  I put a bit away each week until the payment is due.

    We have a separate checking account (Freedom Account) that we put the money we are saving so we don't accidently spend it.  We keep a accounting of all the money in that account and what it is set aside for.   It is sort of like a virtual envelope system.   Below is a sample of common categories in our virtual envelope system.  The total at the bottom should be the same as the total in that checking account.   I use online banking so I am able to move money very easily from account to account. 

     JulyAugustSeptember
    Emergency Fund118.45356.45 
    Car Insurance17700 
    Christmas810810 
    City of WBL/75.00 to savings525450 
    School Supplies2000 
    House Payment233466 
    Tuition/Summer Daycare   
    Child Support100200 
     3756.452,282.450.00

    The other things that is a vital part of our budget working is FUN MONEY.   We have a set amount that each week goes to myself and my hubby that we do whatever we want with.  Neither of us is allowed to come down on the other regarding the choices the other makes with that money.   What I deem as FUN is different than my hubby's idea of FUN!

    Focus???   I focus on my debt repayment plan and continue to pay the same amount each month.  That plan when you set it up has you continue to pay the same minimum payment even as the minimum due decreases.   I focus on one debt paying an extra $100 to that one.  Once that is paid off I take all the money that monthly would go to that debt and apply it to my next debt to pay off.  This is the snowballing principal.  

    My husband and I with the best intentions have a hard time managing different budgets from one account. do you have any ideas on what works for you?

    My hubby and I have come up with a system that works for us.  What works for us is to have three checking accounts.   My hubby has a checking account that is his.  He only uses this account for his FUN MONEY.  I move it into there each week and he budgets that.  We agreed a long time ago what our set FUN MONEY amount is and adjust it as needed when one of us has something going on like going out with friends or something.  This is pretty infrequent.   We each also get a SA gift card each week to pay for our gas for the week. 

      I have a checking account which is our Household Account in which I pay all of our bills out of.  I take my FUN MONEY out in cash and use the envelope system for that and our grocery money.   The third checking account is what we call our Freedom Account.   This is where we transfer all the funds we are saving for future payments that month, such as 1/4 of our house payment each week.  Then the payment comes due, I transfer the funds from the Freedom Account online into the Household Account to make the payment.  

    This is what works for us.....maybe bits and pieces of it will work for you!   If you have more questions, just let me know!! 

    Happy Budgeting!!

  • Financial Chat

    dbet  Saturday was grocery shopping day.   I budget $100/ week for groceries to feed my family of 5 or 6 depending on the day.   My key to success is menu planning and to only buying what I will need for the next two weeks.   Only buying groceries every 2 weeks seems to help keep us within budget.  The less I am in the store, the less I will spend.  

    We had way more food spoil the last two weeks than I would like to see.  What a waste of money.  ARGH!  So I am buying the produce I need for the second week the following week.  So I am in the store each week, but I try to stick to the list!  Another issue is that the leftovers aren't always getting eaten in a timely fashion.  Now that I am using the menu service, E-Mealz.com to plan our meals, the servings are smaller and less wasted food.  I am also making Tommy's and my lunch when clearing off the table each night so I am remembering to use the leftovers! 

    Grocery Shopping for 8/07/10
    Sam's Club -          $77.24 ( taco Seasoning, Cooking Spray, Granola Bars, Oxy Clean, Creme Pies, and Ramen) 
    Aldi                       $149.32

    Total Spent for 14 days - $226.56  = $16.18/Day or 113.28/ week

    I was a bit over my budget, but last week I was under and had money left over.   I still have $80 remaining in my grocery envelope so I am good.  I still have a couple of things I need to pickup later in the week.  I am waiting to buy the produce for the second week of my menu, to hopefully decrease the food spoilage. 

    Items Needed:

    Bag Peanuts
    Honey Mustard Dressing
    Creole Seasoning
    Strawberries
    Asparagus
    Cantaloupe
    Green Salad
    Head of Lettuce
    Tomatoes??? 
    Broccoli Crowns

    Other information on the budget front I am done paying one of my debts off.  I owed my parents some money and that is done!  I was paying them $50/week so that budgeted item will move to be added to our Emergency Fund.  I will have to write a post sometime about our budgeting technics.  All I have to say is if I knew what I knew now before...I would be in very different financial situation today!   Live and Learn....I guess.

    We use the snowballing technic to pay off our debts.  So once one debt is paid, you roll that minimum payment over to the next thing.  At the same time we are building up our savings.  I do my savings a bit different than suggested by Dave Ramsey or Mary Hunt.  I ear mark the money in my savings.  Like I had $1600 set aside for car insurance.  If I pay for the car insurance 6 months at a time, I get a $250 reduction.   So I have a years worth of car insurance in my savings account at the beginning of the year courtesy of our tax return.  I also earmark $800 - $1000 for Christmas expenses and finally a emergency fund.  The emergency fund I add to as often as I can to cover the unexpected car repair or whatever.  

    Our goal is to be debt free within 10 years including house.  We have some expenses to consider in the future.  We have to decide if we will be continuing our son in private school after Jr High.   We also would like to do one last major remodel to the house before we retire.  Then we will be focusing on saving for retirement.

    I was able to do a nice consolidation of two of my credit cards, which saved me 10% in interest for the life of the balance.  So that was helpful to us in meeting our financial goals.   So I am reminding myself to be a good steward of the gift God has given us and live within our means!  Be content in the simple things in life.....you will be much happier.  I know I am!

    It is all about choices..and I hope I am teaching my children these lessons as well.  Our children see frugality as normal. We make dinners at home, plan a menu weekly – dinners at home are normal and eating out is a very special treat. Making our own meals at home is normal – it’s normal to see mom in the kitchen preparing supper.  A night of drive through is a rare treat.   It’s normal to go to the library each Saturday.  It’s normal to spend an evening playing a board game or renting a movie from redbox.  It is a treat to go to the movie at the theater.   They do not see rampant overspending as the norm. When we do make a major purchase, our children are probably getting sick of the conversation about the purchase.  My kids can attest to this.  It took me five years to finally purchase a Kindle...and we had alot of discussions about it and comparing it to the Nook, etc.  I hope my children are picking up on the lessons I am trying to teach them.

    I hope our children also understand  why we’re doing this. When I was growing up, we practiced a lot of frugality, but the “why” of practicing that frugality was often simply that we didn’t have enough money.  And I knew my lifestyle was different from other children because we didn't have as much.  I wore garage sale clothes not by choice.  But I did learn valuable saving technics from my parents, but didn't chose to use them until much later than I would have liked.   When I finally had money I wanted to use it because I felt I went too many year without and I wanted to give the world to my children.  I realized very quickly that the best thing I could do for my children was to teach them these financial principles and prepare them for the realities of life.

    For our family, frugality enables us to spend less than what we earn without giving up things that are really important to us. What is important to us may not be the same as your family....but that is ok.  We are a techy family!  We chose to spend alot of money on computers, Internet and other electronics.  We don’t have to be frugal – we choose to do it because of the life it’s creating for us.  I also hate being called frugal....because I am not in some regards.  I just try to be financially responsible.   As a family we spend more money on electronics than the average family, which is not frugal, but I do have a son and hubby who work in the IT field.  We chose not to deprive ourselves, just to make thoughtful decisions about the things we want in our lives.  If we stay the course with our debt reduction plan, real opportunities will open up to us, just in time for our children to see the real benefits of a financially responsible life.    I wish my parents would have sat down and had these discussions with me.  Just this weekend Josh and I were discussing some financial strategies on consolidating his student loan.  His goal is to save for a down payment on a house.  I wish I knew what he does, when I was 22! 

    Remember the family that saves together dreams together.

     

    Happy Savings!!

  • Menu Plan Monday: 8/9 - 8/15

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    Favorite meals from last week include, Easy Cheeseburger Pie (e-mealz -334), Slow Cooker Chicken Tortilla/ Corn Tortilla Chips (e-mealz -335), Deli Turkey and Cheese Bagels (e-mealz -335), Chinese Pork Roast (e-mealz -335) and  Creamy Pork Casserole (e-mealz -335).  

    I am really liking using the menu service, E-Mealz.com to plan our meals.  The portions for the recipes are smaller and I find that we are eating less too.   It has made planning and shopping so much easier.  The meals are also very quick to make, great after a full day at work.  I really like having the sides planned for me as I seem to make the same thing over and over. 

    Menu Plan: 8/9 - 8/15

    Our Menu for the next two weeks is entirely from the E-mealz.com menu service.   It has saved me a ton of time today!

    Monday -8/9 - One Dish Nacho Bake/ Tossed Salad (e-mealz -336)

    Tuesday - Chicken Salad Sandwiches/Grapes/Chips (e-mealz -337)

    Wednesday - Cajun Red Beans & Rice/ Sauteed Squash (e-mealz -337)

    Thursday - Summer Spinach Salad (e-mealz -337)

    Friday - Mexican Hamburgers/Corn on the Cab/Watermelon (e-mealz -337)

    Saturday - Apricot Pork Ribs/Stove Top Baked Beans/Watermelon (e-mealz -337)

    Sunday - Honey Nut Chicken/ Glazed Carrots/Fettuccine Alfredo (e-mealz -337)

    Happy Eating!!!

    Jen

  • Menu Plan: 8/9 - 8/22

    Our Menu for the next two weeks is entirely from the E-mealz.com menu service.   It has saved me a ton of time today!

    Monday -8/9 - One Dish Nacho Bake/ Tossed Salad (e-mealz -336)

    Tuesday - Chicken Salad Sandwiches/Grapes/Chips (e-mealz -337)

    Wednesday - Cajun Red Beans & Rice/ Sauteed Squash (e-mealz -337)

    Thursday - Summer Spinach Salad (e-mealz -337)

    Friday - Mexican Hamburgers/Corn on the Cab/Watermelon (e-mealz -337)

    Saturday - Apricot Pork Ribs/Stove Top Baked Beans/Watermelon (e-mealz -337)

    Sunday - Honey Nut Chicken/ Glazed Carrots/Fettuccine Alfredo (e-mealz -337)

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    Monday - Tuna Casserole/Sweet Peas/Pear Slices  (e-mealz -337)

    Tuesday - Chicken Tender Salad/Apricot English Muffins  (e-mealz -336)

    Wednesday - Italian-Dijon Tilapia/Asparagus/Cantaloupe (e-mealz -336)

    Thursday - Ham & Broccoli Pastry/Carrots w/ Ranch/Cottage Cheese & Strawberries (e-mealz -336)

    Friday - BLT Sandwiches/Strawberry Parfaits (e-mealz -336)

    Saturday - Bayou Stroganoff/Apple Sauce (e-mealz -336)

    Sunday - Teriyaki Chicken Kabobs/Corn on the Cob (e-mealz -336)

    Happy Eating!!!

  • Menu Plan Monday: August 2nd

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     August 2nd - August 8th

    Favorite meals from last week include, Cheddar Bacon Hamburgers, Quick Chicken Quesadillas and Pepperoni and Cheese Crescents/ Salad.  I have really liked our first week of using the menu service, E-Mealz.com.  It made planning and shopping so much easier.  The meals are also very quick to make, great after a full day at work.  We actually followed our planned menu all week....no unplanned trips through the drive through!   This week our entire menu is from E-Mealz.com. 

    Monday (Working Late) - Spicy Pork Chops Over Steamed Rice/Italian Green Beans (e-mealz -334) (Didn't make)

    Tuesday - Easy Cheeseburger Pie/Fries/ Watermelon (e-mealz -334) - Good Add to Site

    Wednesday - Slow Cooker Chicken Tortilla/ Corn Tortilla Chips (e-mealz -335) - Good Add to Site

    Thursday - Italian Skillet/ Italian Salad/ Garlic Bread (e-mealz -335)

    Friday (Movie Night) - Deli Turkey and Cheese Bagels/ Chips (e-mealz -335) - Good Add to Site

    Saturday - Chinese Pork Roast/ Steamed Rice/ Stir-Fry Vegetables/Egg Rolls (e-mealz -335) (good add to site)

    Sunday - Creamy Pork Casserole/ Peas/Cantaloupe (e-mealz -335) (good Add to Site)

    Hope you all have a wonderful weekend!!  Just remember that a bit of planning will sure make your week go smoother, give you more free time and save you money!  For more Menu Planning inspiration stop by and visit Laura at Organizing Junkie and participate in Menu Plan Monday.  Weekly over 400 bloggers share what they have on their menu.  I always find inspiration for new meals from my fellow bloggers. 

    Happy Eating!!!